This post is one I've been thinking about doing for awhile now. I am not calling anyone out specifically, but if the shoe fits wear it. If you're someone who deals with mean girls in real life or over the internet, this post is for you. If you're a mean girl then you should stick around.
Lately mean girls have been trending and I do not mean the movie. It seems like a lot of women/girls are deal with them. Whether you're a blogger, you make videos on YouTube, or in your everyday life we all have come in contact with mean girls. Right now I have not come in contact with internet mean girls but in real life I have dealt with them. I remember in the 3rd grade I would come home crying because they kicked me out of their club. Everyday I would play by myself. When I got older there were new mean girls who became cattier and at the same time I became stronger. We all know the feeling of getting picked on and not being accepted sucks. Just remember that you are a good person and because the mean girls are not, they became jealous. But apparently jealously takes over and everyone wants to act 5 years old.
Honestly, I do not understand why their called Mean Girls, they act just like bullies. So what's the difference? There isn't one, at least not in my mind. I am so tired of women/girls putting each other down. We should be trying to help one another succeed. There are plenty of reasons why mean girls act this way, but they do not have a clue how it affects the person they're picking on. Some people may feel like their not good enough; they might not have any confidence. I want women/girls to that you are special and should not let "Mean Girls" bring you down.
Mean Girls may say you're not good enough or you're not pretty, but that's not true. You all are beautiful on the inside and that shows on the outside. You all are worth it. Mean Girls are rude and vicious and if their bothering you, talk to someone about it. You can even talk to me because I do understand. You all are so important and unique I hope you know that. Remember: Mean Girls will do anything for attention.
I hope you enjoyed reading this post and remember people will say and do anything to bring others down. This doesn't have to be because you personally did something wrong, people like to put blame on others because of how their feeling.
There's always gonna be people that try and drag you down. School's the worse because everyone's so clique-y and it sucks to be ganged up on, but even as an adult I've encountered a lot of mean girls and guys. I think at the end of the day it comes down to jealousy, or people like to pick on those they deem weaker to make themselves feel better!
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Yeah you're right. When people are insecure they want others to feel that way too.
DeleteThere are no mean girls actually, they are just broken girls who need to validate themselves.
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