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Doing Things Differently In 2019!


A new year equals a fresh start, to do things the right way. So you have learned from your mistakes and life lessons taught you what to do differently this time around. I’m not an expert on life and I’m still figuring out my own. This isn’t me giving you advice, it’s just us group of friends talking. What this means is that I am going to be completely honest with you. You have the opportunity to change your story if you didn’t like the previous chapter. With that being said you should let go of any negative energy that followed you into this year.

If you’re around toxic energy, that can have a major impact on your life. Sometimes we’re afraid of change and because of this we stay in our comfort zone. This is very understandable trust me, I’m talking to myself in this post too. When you are comfortable in a situation you think that, this is all you need. In any relationship you have, whether it’s with your significant others or friends you need to pay attention to who is in your corner rooting for you. Ask yourself if the people in your circle ones that always support you, are always there for you and love you the way you love them? 

If a situation is no longer good for you, then it will not benefit you. For example, if someone is always negative to you leave that negative vibes. Find people who are positive and always trying to lift you up and make you smile. If a friendship is one sided and you are the one going out of your way, maybe it’s not really a friendship anymore. Was it even a friendship to begin with. Most importantly, don’t be the one that is giving off negativity. Everyone is going through a battle or an obstacle in life and that doesn’t give anyone the right to beat them down further. If you are the one going through a battle you will get through it. If someone wants to be there for you, I know life may seem hard right now but don’t push them away. Those are the people you want in your life. You never know, but you might all of these things for a person. If you know someone is struggling be there for them, if you feel like you can’t then help them find someone to talk too. Kindness goes along way and it doesn’t cost to show someone you care.

So much is going on in the world today and we need to bring positive vibes more than ever. It seems like something terrible is happening either everyday or every other day. Be the light in your life, be that strength for yourself, be the friend you have always wanted. If you can find someone to be all of those things for you, that’s a bonus and the  person who can do that for you is a keeper. 

I hope you enjoyed reading this. Most importantly, I hope it helped you. Remember you are enough and you are worth it! 
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